Why is success never enough
A friend of mine is a C-level. He makes good money, has a family, and a career most people would be satisfied with. We recently had a chat where he
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Why do I stress about decisions that turned out fine
A friend of mine bought a house last year. Good price, good location, the kind of decision most people would feel proud of. Instead, he spent weeks in a quiet
Why do I keep ending up in the same situation
Confidence borrowed from roles works until it’s tested. What’s left after that test is usually thinner than expected.
Why am I successful, but something feels off
Everything looks right from the outside. Career works, relationships are stable, the daily answer to 'how are you' sounds great. But there's a gap between the version everyone sees and the version that exists in the ten minutes before you press delete
Why do I avoid difficult conversations
We went for a walk and he listed everything bothering him. Porn, doom scrolling, sleep avoidance, sending difficult patients to his boss. They looked like separate problems. They were all the same move: leaving the room before someone could be disappointed in him.
Why do I procrastinate when I know what to do
His mum told him to clean his boots. He said "I will." He never did. Thirty years later, same pattern. It's not discipline. It's something else entirely.
Why can't I make decisions
He has the savings, the skills, the supportive wife, the plan. He can't make the decision. Not because he's indecisive but because making it would change who he is.