You can see everyone else's pattern but you can't see yours.

Most people don't have someone to think out loud with anymore. No bonfire, no priest, no friend close enough to be honest. That's what this is.


Denis Muhr

Denis Muhr

I played rugby for twenty-five years. Built and walked away from multiple careers. At some point I stopped blaming the situation and started noticing the pattern was me.

I write about what I found. And I sit with people for an hour and name the pattern they can't see from inside their own life. That's why I can usually see yours.

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For things that won't resolve alone.

One session. One hour. I listen for the pattern running the situation. You leave knowing what it is.

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